To open gifts at a 4yo bday party or not?

[Erin_25]

It's great to open them as they are received I think, as then you can thank the person who gave it and know who it came from. But I like to be there greeting the guest and making sure my DS says thank you for the present. My pet hate is when there are kids everywhere and the child runs up grabs the present & runs off....then it's left on the ground somewhere because of all that's going on and the parent doesn't even acknowledge its been given or know who it came from......that really annoys me.

[Rouge]

So long as whatever you do have a list going at the same time so you can send thank you notes.

[Lulu]

Oh I think my kids would die if the present wasn't opened straight away. They take such time choosing, wrapping and writing the cards - and half the fun is seeing someone happy with what you gave them.

[Tinks]

My kids open presents when they are given to them then I put them aside so the kids don't get to them during the party.

[AwesomeFoursome]

My kids open presents when they are given to them then I put them aside so the kids don't get to them during the party.

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[Jaycee]

Oh I think my kids would die if the present wasn't opened straight away. They take such time choosing, wrapping and writing the cards - and half the fun is seeing someone happy with what you gave them.

:yeahthat:

I love watching people open the presents I've picked for them!

Absolutely open the presents

[Rouge]

Yeah definitely put them aside once opened. I was at a 4 y.o. party recently and a matchbox car set with 1000000000+ pieces was opened and strewn from one end of the house to the other... it was baaaad.

[Kazbah]

I had Pip's 3rd b/day in April, and one little boy was so excited to give Pip the pressie it was hard to keep him from ppushing it at Pip until after cake!!! It was so cool to see them all excited together!!!!

[hannahfroodoo]

Thanks everyone. looks like I might have to reconsider the present opening thing...

Arrrgghh! I am dreading that bit. DD is very good and always says 'thank you SO much for the wonderful present' (same thing everytime lol) but I'm just worried about how she is going to go with all the people and stimulation (she's very very shy) and think she is likely to just freak out and go hide in her room if the attention is too intense lol. I think we will do it as people give them to her so it is not all at once with everyone watching since I'm sure that would put her over the edge.

Definitely a list... I know - it is my pet hate when thank you notes are not sent. I'm still bitter that my BIL and his wife didn't send thank you notes for their wedding or baby shower lol. They are crossed off my gift list now!