thread: Opening presents - During or after the party?

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  1. #1
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    May 2007
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    Depend on the party.
    Eg my daughter third party was small, so opened as arrived.
    Baby shower - at set time, as people seem to want to all look at what you got.
    Engagement /wedding/21st type- after guests have left.

  2. #2

    May 2008
    Melbourne, Vic
    8,631

    Depend on the party.
    Eg my daughter third party was small, so opened as arrived.
    Baby shower - at set time, as people seem to want to all look at what you got.
    Engagement /wedding/21st type- after guests have left.
    Pretty much exactly the same

    Problem we had with opening DD's at her party is that my niece wanted to play with them all, which is ok except that some of them my DD was quite attached to and didn't want to share and niece kept chasing her round saying "Share! It's not nice to keep it all to yourself!" and I was there going "Niece, leave her be! They are her special presents!"

  3. #3
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    Dec 2008
    8,986

    I like to open birthday presents as they are given then they get put away out of the other kids reach.

  4. #4
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    Apr 2009
    Perth, WA
    1,587

    Depend on the party.
    Eg my daughter third party was small, so opened as arrived.
    Baby shower - at set time, as people seem to want to all look at what you got.
    Engagement /wedding/21st type- after guests have left.
    My opinion is the same. However I do find it quite awkward at baby showers if someone has spent quite a lot on a gift and then someone else has spent a minimal amount. Dont get me wrong I am not a shallow person and I believe its the thought of giving not the cost, but I cant help but feel awkward for the people that purchased the gift if something massive gets opened by one person and then the next gives a bib etc.