My aunt and uncle got married in wagga so most of our family couldn't see it.
They renewed their vows about a week later down here in VIC. they had the ceremony in the garden outside the house (which was an adorably old fashioned with bluestone walls) on my grandparents farm. It was a beautiful little setting next to/under some orchids and we had afternoon tea on hand. After that they paid for everyone to go to Smorgys (which, 10 years ago, wasn't that terrible).
Because she stil had the wedding dress she wore it as well, and they still had bridesmaids and what not but not to wedding extent -imagine that, you could get all your gorgeous children involved!
Good luck with your planning~!