I'd just invite my girlfriends over for a girl's night, and spring it on 'em when they got there!

N2L, totally know where you're coming from. But I've never been able to tell people I'm pregnant without an immediately following 'but......' I want my next baby to be celebrated while they're alive, how long that may be. They may not get a blessingway, they can at least have a preggo party, y'know?