1. We used to buy gifts, but stuff you treasure together is more of a memory for us
2. We usually have a reallly late dinner (after the kids are in bed) of our favourite meal at home (I love to cook and we rarely have enough money to splash out) and then play a board game together until the wee hours. Daggy I know, but we enjoy it.
3. See 2
4. We're married.

What about a love letter presented in a beautiful box?
an IOU for timeout together while you're in Fiji?