Oh you lucky devil going to fiji! woohoo! We dont' usually give gifts to eachother or to others for that matter (unless we feel compelled ) we prefer to do nice things together make a day out somewhere, give a massage, have a spa, prep some snacks to kick back and watch a movie together, go out for dinner or cook a nice meal and have it with wine etc. Really just being together for a bit of quality time to reconnect is the most important thing. The lack of gifts I think may be a sore point for some family members as they consider that the 'done' thing but time and connection is more important to us. Sometimes a gift is nice though if we know the person we are giving it too will like it. We take our anniversary from our wedding day and the day we actually got together so we kinda have 2 anniversaries