Sorry - we all must have posted around the same time.

My mum would be devastated if I didnt invite her, but I wont be telling her that its our wedding day because she will tell everyone and that will p*ss me off (just like when I asked her not to tell anyone about my surgery)

I just told her a friend of mine knows a photographer who had a family generation that I booked Fingers crossed it works out! I will tell her on the day tho