I've been to one and thought it was awful, but I didn't know the couple at all and it was over in about five minutes. If they'd tried to make it special it would have been alright, but there was no feeling of importance in the room. It was like a few people had turned up to watch another few people do paperwork. I'm not even sure the couple liked each other, the way they were acting... As with any kind of wedding, it's what you make it. I'm sure there were some people who thought my wedding was crap because the ceremony was relaxed and not stuffy and uptight!