I wouldnt lie & say it's too far to drive I'd say well Im not coming as my hubby isnt invited!? If they can invite you but not your DH without explanation then I'd not offer more than that... He's not invited & so my cjoice is to not come either!


We had a couple (DH's really close friend & his ugly pig of a wife ;-) ) that came to our wedding 3hours late, he was so apologetic, she was actually a friend for the 2yrs prior to our wedding, so not sure why our wedding day they came late, but then she told her hubby to tell my hubby that they couldnt be our friends anymore! Her Hubby has even told mine that he isnt allowed over to our house & when he has come (2 times in 4yrs!) he asks me not to tell any of our mutual friends!
It's crazy, but we have absolutely no idea what happened & I was p'd off coz if ya dont wanna be our friends anymore, then dont freaking come to our wedding!!!???