Should i go?

[Butterfly Child]

you know what feels right for you, if you dont see any friendship there i wouldnt go but if you do value it i would IMO XX

[*LittleMissSummer*]

Dianne- to answer your questions. She only came because a mutual friend invited her, i didnt know she was coming until she turned up. I did say we could never be friends but if i was to bump into her i wouldnt snob her off i would be civil, ask how she is etc.

There is no repairing our friendship, more i don't want to she caused so much damage to my relationship and we have been so much happier since shes been out of my life.

The only reason i would consider going is because we were best friends for 8 years and it would just be for old times sake and then i would continue living my life with her not in it.

[BrightSparkles]

There is no repairing our friendship, more i don't want to she caused so much damage to my relationship and we have been so much happier since shes been out of my life.

I think you just answered your question there...

[diannescruffy]

If there is no repairing your friendship I don't know why you are asking for advice.

Regards,
Dianne

[Inanna]

I don't understand? If you are not friends with this person then I don't get why you would want to go?
I wouldn't even consider it - in my experience birthdays are times for friends and family to celebrate together. If youare neither of those things I wouldn't even be asking the question if you should go...

[Lulu]

Dianne- to answer your questions. She only came because a mutual friend invited her, i didnt know she was coming until she turned up. I did say we could never be friends but if i was to bump into her i wouldnt snob her off i would be civil, ask how she is etc.

There is no repairing our friendship, more i don't want to she caused so much damage to my relationship and we have been so much happier since shes been out of my life.

The only reason i would consider going is because we were best friends for 8 years and it would just be for old times sake and then i would continue living my life with her not in it.

You have answered your own question really - but it looks like she is extended the hand of ( 8 years) of friendship so you might want to ponder that a bit, but ultimately it's up to you xoxoxo

[*LittleMissSummer*]

I am just too nice for my own good i think. I say i have wiped my hands clean of her but here i am asking you ladies if i should attend her 21st..

I think i will not go, i can't go down that road again of explaining to her why we can't be friends. Although i didn't cry when our friendship ended i just don't want to cause any unneccessary stress or worry.

[Lulu]

So you still care about what she thinks then? She still came to your party?

Ah dunno why I ask these questions...but you don't know what you've got till it's gone.

[*LittleMissSummer*]

I won't go into anymore detail but i want to thank you all for stopping me make a very bad decision. I just had to ask your opinions i guess to be told direct that i would be an idiot if i went and i needed to be told that we arent friends so i shouldnt go.