Thanks all for your comments

Now there is an extra dilema... Ive just found out that my other friend (lets call her Sue) is leaving her 4mth old at her mums place for the night - even though he is normally BF - she will FF just for the day.

Now I feel ike Im going to get all the "why did you bring bub? Sue didnt bring hers and hes breastfed"

GREAT. Now Im going to get judged, and in the process of defending myself I'll probably offend Sue!!!

*sigh*