might be a bit far out for you - but have you considered your local "ethnic" clubs?

At most of these places you can get decent food (no one will go hungry!) plenty of alcohol (most of us ethnics like it ALOT ) and a dj thrown in for a really good price. Or (as we are doing) we are loading up our laptop with hours of tunes

Thats what we are doing with ours - well, actually we are getting married in september this year and will have the reception next year - mummy (me) wants to party too!!!!