makes sense Jennifer I was really refering more to the church not allowing the other godparents to be apart of the ceremony kwim. sure they can have the catholic ones at the front of the line and for them to do whatever they are supposes to do or paticipate in but I think they can still allow the others to be there or stand there, JMO though and I realise religion has it's own set of rules, it would just be nice to see some flexibility, at least I would like some if it were me.