What do you think about surprise weddings?

[mzjen]

ok i was meaning for a surprise for my partner LOL. i should have said that so the ppl that will be coming will know what is going on bar my partner

[Mummy&Daddy2Be]

ohhhhh LOL. so sorry! i totally misunderstood. i have never heard of that. wow that would be different haha! what would be the "occasion" that you would tell him? how would you get him to rock up in a suit? what about his groomsmen? lots of things to think about. keep us updated

[Sopdet]

Considering both of you have to do the paperwork at least a month before your wedding day, I think he would have to know that it is going to happen.

[mzjen]

AWW that just stuffed things up for me then lol. i new i had to give a month notice and i was gonna do it cause he's away on work at the moment and was gonna book a few days away for us and pack the suit and tell him the day we got married. so i just flushed my ideas down the loo lol. thanks ladies

[lady_neon]

Yeah, a surprise for guests is different to surprising the future spouse. Wouldn't he want a say? Strange IMO.

[mzjen]

we are engaged already and yeah he has a say and he wants to get married we were gonna do it about 10 months ago but he had to go away up north for work so we put it off and now his gone for another month i thought it would be nice once he gets back to do it (what he does want). but i guess he will know then i have everything ready just no date and place. So we just gotta wait for him to come home to set the date and place.