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At the end of the day it's all about your childs special day anyway...same as your df's cousins. They have their bubs baptism, you can have yours after, or before...does it really matter? Just so long as it's not on the same day, I don't see the issue lol. The day is about your baby, not about you feeling overshadowed. I agree, I'm sure your MIL can share a whole month and I don't really think it's in your rights to be asking your cousin to change their day; how would it make you feel if the roles were reversed?
I do agree! At the end of the day it's your child's day, so no matter how big the event it's more special