DH decided last minute not to wear shoes. I was FUMING! (only because I was the one who'd wanted to go barefoot and only didn't because of HIS mother!)

Pfft! I'd have told her to Jam it! XD DF is wearing anice pair of jeans when we get married, and his mum is horrified... but he's still wearing them!

My way of thinking is that it's only time to stress if the groom doesn't rock up