When asked not to bring a gift to a wedding, what do you do.

[Bella29]

Glad you like the Avi Mylitta made it for me.

Def be getting them a card. I like the idea or a donation thanks girls I do want to respect their wishes too. I also don't want to just get something just because I felt pressured by the fact that quite a few people at the last wedding got that couple things.

[Mad Scientist]

I'd do the donation too or a voucher. We asked for no gifts or a contribution to our honeymoon but people still gave us gifts. I would have preferred they got us nothing though, as some gifts were quite bizarre like a wedding guest book (which we opened after the wedding??). I'm sure they meant it when they said no gifts. Good luck with whatever you decide and enjoy the wedding!