An old friend has invited me to her wedding in January which is where I used to live (about a four hour drive away). Everytime we've talked about it we've talked about how exciting it will be to see everyone and to show off my little Lachlan. Then I get the wedding invite and it's addressed to me and me only. I put off calling her for weeks... so I ended up calling her and asking "if any one drops out do you think I might be able to bring DH along" to which she replies "I dont know about that". Now she's invited people who have done nothing but give her grief and say mean things about her partner behind her back (which she knows about) and one of their gf's (someone who he's just dating).My partner and I are always nice to them and supportive... never have a bad thing to say (except for maybe now). I can't help but feel a little hurt and offended by this and the friend who I did talk to about this just didnt seem to understand (she's single and I guess neither of them understand). Anyone have any suggestions... I was thinking of maybe just going for the wedding and not the reception...