We got both, from aunt's and grandparents we got to the children, and from some friends we got to the parents. Their aunt did beautiful cards with "blessings" to the kids and she wrote the meanings of their names. I think it depends how you go.

I'd probably do a life blessings in a card I would do too so I'd probably do it to the children. (I know how sleeping beauty... but its just something our family does)

*hugs*
Cailin