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  1. #1

    Mar 2004
    Sparta
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    your mother's wedding dress

    Women spend thousands on their dress, then they pay close to $100.00 to have it dry-cleaned and packed and guaranteed, that dress will never adorn anyone's body ever again.

    I've yet to meet one woman who wears their mother's wedding dress.
    This got me thinking...... I've never met anyone who wore thier mother's wedding dress either yet I know so many women who have saved thiers for thier daughter.

    Did you wear your mother's wedding dress? Or get it remoddelled or use the fabric?

  2. #2
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    Jan 2006
    8,369

    I wanted to wear my mother's dress, but her little brother had thrown up on it and the stains never came out, so chose against wearing a sick-stained dress!

    I want to wear my dress again when we renew our vows for our 25th/30th anniversary... it will take me another twenty-odd years to diet back into it!

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Jan 2007
    where cosmopolitans and margaritas flow all night
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    My mum hired her wedding dress.
    My late grandmother wore her mother's wedding dress which was her mother's before her.
    She lent it to my uncle's now ex-wife when my uncle go married and I don't think she ever got it back. I might have considered wearing it otherwise.

    I have 2 wedding dresses. One of which I never wore. The one that I did wear to my wedding is not a traditional style of wedding dress. One of these days I plan to get it professionally dyed and wearing it to special occasions.

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    May 2006
    Igglepiggle Land
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    I wanted to wear my mother's dress, but her little brother had thrown up on it and the stains never came out, so chose against wearing a sick-stained dress!

    I want to wear my dress again when we renew our vows for our 25th/30th anniversary... it will take me another twenty-odd years to diet back into it!
    Thats a really great idea!

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Jan 2006
    8,369

    Nic - batwing sleeves. My mum's wedding dress had those too. Love them! But sadly not in fashion these days.

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    Jun 2003
    Ubiquity
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    I doubt Paris will want to wear my wedding dress, although techincally it wasn't a wedding dress... I would never have wanted to wear my mothers.... but I probably wouldn't have fitted into it either She was a stick... and lets just say I have curves

    When I renew my vows though I intend to go all out, and even though it won't be white *shudder* it may be something she'd wear... but not necessarily to a wedding. Who knows though... her tastes are eerily similar to mine atm and apparently I am no longer cool (thanks darling).

    *hugs*
    Cailin

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    Feb 2005
    canberra
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    my cousin wore my Aunties wedding dress as her Deb dress and she looked great in it.

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Feb 2004
    Melbourne
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    Same Louise - a friend of mine wore her mum's dress as her Deb dress.

  9. #9
    Registered User

    Dec 2005
    In Bankworld with Barbara
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    I wore my Mums dress for dress ups when I was a kid - I am afair bit bigger in height and build than my Mum LOL. We went to a wedding last year where the bride used her grooms mothers' wedding dress (no daughters) and used the fabric to make herself a new dress. it looked amazing too.

    Mine is sitting in the top of my wardrobe and neither of my girls will have the same figure to be able to wear it. I am seriously thinking of selling it actually.

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    Lucy in the sky with diamonds.

    Jan 2005
    Funky Town, Vic
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    My mum had this FANTASTIC short little number (60s wedding), all floaty and white. I will find some excuse to wear it someday - I'm not getting married again, but it is really timeless dress and deserves another go!

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    Registered User

    Jan 2007
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    I was unable to fit into my mums dress and the style probably wouldn't not have suited my wedding day (beachy) anyway. However, we have used her wedding dress to make a christening outfit for my nephew. Hopefully will also be able to use for my kids as well. My wedding dress was a Mr K creation, usually a bridesmaid dress style but was able to get it in white. Looked stunning and really suited the occasion. I have looked into getting it dyed so that it can be reused but at the moment, it is stored at my mums house.

  12. #12
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    Sep 2006
    659

    My mum had a beautiful mexican wedding dress that my dad bought secretly for her as her mother was controlling her wedding (it was a shotgun, she was 17 and pregnant with me). In the end, mum was too scared to wear it and wore what her mum had preorganized.

    When I got married, I really wanted to wear the mexican dress my mother couldn't wear. But I never did, I can't remember why (gosh it was 10 years ago almost ), but I think it was something to do with the fabric and it being quite old and falling apart a bit.

    Maybe next time.

    I got rid of my wedding dress along with my marriage a few years ago. It was already dated bad then, there is no way my daughter would wear it one day. It was puffy and sequinned and nothing like me or her anyway.

  13. #13
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    Jun 2005
    Perth
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    My mum threw hers out when moving to Aus - she said it had some rust stains on it from metal pins that she had used to pin it to the coathanger.

    It was a beautiful simple long flowy dress, if I had the same figure as her I would have loved to have worn it if not for my wedding but for something else. Unfort I got my boobs from my dads side of the family I would have had no hope in hell!

    I like the idea of using it for a christening outfit.

  14. #14
    Registered User

    Jan 2005
    Down by the ocean
    6,110

    I thought about wearing my mums dress but decided not to. She was married in June and it was cold so she had a heavy crepe fabric with long sleeves and I was married in January on what turned out to be a 35 degree day.
    I wouldn't have altered it at all so I'm glad I didn't wear it. It's very nice and is sitting preserved in a box in my linen cupboard though!

  15. #15
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    Nov 2005
    in a house!
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    My mums dress was hideous!!! Not a hope!

    But...we did use the fabric to make my communion dress

  16. #16
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    Jul 2006
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    My mums dress was BLUE..... with frills and dangly bits..... id be ashamed to be seen in it!!

  17. #17
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    Feb 2006
    Newcastle, NSW
    4,219

    My mums dress was BLUE..... with frills and dangly bits..... id be ashamed to be seen in it!!
    LMAO!!! My Mums dress was blue also... and her bridesmaids wore apricot, and her groomsmen and my Dad wore brown!!! Surely those colours have never been in fashion together?
    So, nope, I didn't wear my Mums dress... and I really hope my daughter doesn't get big enough to fit into mine!!!

  18. #18
    Claire Guest

    No I have no idea what would have happened to my mother's wedding dress. But I have a picture of her and my father on their wedding day and she looked very pretty.

    It was a cream coloured, long sleeved high necked dress, floor length. From memory I think it had either buttons or pleating down the front.

    My father had a velour type material suit, in brown with a huge knotted tie, big lapels and flairs.

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