thread: Am I over reacting??

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  1. #1
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    Sep 2008
    In a cloud of madness.
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    My boss is like 65 so unlikely she is TTC...lol

    There are only 8 employees in my area and we are all really close and wouldn't survive in the job without each other so yes... i was offended that I a)wasn't ever kept in the loop and b) not invited to xmas party. I have worked at the organisation for 5 years now so I would have expected to be treated a little better than i have been.

    On a personal level, if it wasn't for her, her husband and them putting the program together I wouldn't be here today and most certainly wouldn't have my beautiful dd. They have played a huge role in getting me where i am today and had developed what i thought was a very stong friendship... obviously its not the case... from her POV anyway.

    So i was hurt and offended on both a personal and professional level in this situation and everytime i think about it it makes me angry to think about how the siutation has panned out.

  2. #2
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    Sep 2008
    In a cloud of madness.
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    So I resigned today from this job giving the reasons that I needed a job that was more financially stable that this one is and that since going on mat. leave I don't feel part of the team.

    When I brought up with my boss that she still hasn't acknowledged that she wasn't at DD's naming day she proceeded to tell me she really didn't consider me a friend anymore and that I had betrayed her and she didn't trust me. So much for the 8 and a hlaf yrs of friendship we had previously. Obviously that meant NOTHING.
    I'm so hurt and upset and angry with how it ended. But on the brighter side, if it wasn't for that work place i wouldn't have DF or DD.