Thanks ladies, some good points to think about.

Yes DH is a very hands on Dad and our babies absolutely love him to bits. He currently works shift and because there is no overtime, he is only doing 3 12 hr days a week. This means he is here quite a bit and they are stuck to him pretty much sun up to sun down somedays

I can see the time apart as been a good thing as too be honest he does get on my tits sometimes(whose doesnt?) but then again me having to do EVERYTHING would be very hard and draining too. I cant see it as been a long term thing but the money certainly is very appealing.

I am pretty self reliant anyway as my DH is the king of "gonna" It use to drive me insane but I soon learnt the best way to get him to do was to threaten to get someone in (preferably young hot and gorgeous ) or attempt to do it myself which frustrates the snot out of him so he does it, when I want not when he gets round to it

Hmmmmm I dunno what to think? Would you do it?