Hey there,

I'm in a sticky situation and don't know which road to take.

For the last 6 mths I've been working with people who I initially called friends. I met them at the job and we all got along great! I was so happy working with this bunch, until.....

I don't know what happened! They became much more cliquier (is there such word lol?) and I went from being in with them, to being out in a massive way. The manager is one of them, I did try to being tactful but honest with the manager about my feelings but they became quite defensive in reply so I dropped it and just said I need to take a break for a few weeks which the manager was okay about.

I bent over backwards filling in shifts at the workplace that not only I was changing my shifts at my other employment to help the manager out, but my DH was too - just so I could get to the shift, times he couldn't change shifts I would end up dragging my kids out in the mid of winter so I could still be there to work.

The straw has really snapped since they are moving ahead with a project which was totally my idea, I pushed for it, gained client interest in it etc.....and now they're moving forward with the project leaving me out of the picture totally.

The thing is - I really adore the clients that I get to deal with, that's the only thing really holding me there - besides one specific task I have (which I really love to do too), that if it wasn't for this employment I would lose out on that task entirely. But at the same time this group of people who were initially friends are nice enough to my face, but I dunno, when my back is turned....possibly not? I have no evidence, I haven't heard anything, I've just seen a big shift in 'them' and 'me'. If I defriended them on FB so I wouldn't see the posts that peeve me then that might cause more issues....it's only 2 hours every week, and I have little interaction with them whilst I am there....

What would you do?