I work 4 days a week.. on monday (sometimes sunday if we are home) i organise everything for the week. I cook and freeze all our dinners, i iron all the clothes that i have washed during the week and the weekend. In regards to clothes, i organise the night b4 and put it in the spare room or bathroom. Bcoz i dont have to cook dinner when i get home i spend the time with dd and during this time i organise her clothes, bag etc and my things and it doesnt take too long, she usually follows me around the house. Goodluck, its only a matter or time b4 u find something that works for you