Hun, it takes time I think. For the longest time I didn't do anything much for myself due to guilt, but that took its toll too. I think the key might be to make yourself a priority and remember that without refiling your bucket, you have nothing to give others. It does get easier over time hun - I hope you are able to find a good balance soon
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It took me ages to value my own time and to feel that I deserved me time. But when I get home from a weekend hike, or from a night with my girlfriends, or back from the gym... I am able to give so much more to my family. Without it, I turn into this horrid maniac of a woman!