Every child handles childcare differently. This is pretty normal, and will probably settle down. For now, the best things you can do are to be there for him when he needs you (don't try to toughen him up or anything) and keep things as predictable as possible. Make sure you are always saying goodbye, telling him where you're going, and when you'll be back.
When it comes to drop-off, pleeeeeeeeeease take the "rip the bandaid off" approach. Make separation as quick as possible, and get out of sight as fast as you can. It may feel horrible for you, but it is SO much better than the prolonged anxiety of a longer and drawn out drop off. I've handled a few in my time.
5 weeks to settle in to childcare, is about the average, I reckon. Given that he's in two different situations, I wouldn't be surprised if it's a little bit longer. But it will settle down. Just be there for him.
Thanks for the advice again Audax. I feel like I'm doing most of that so I'm feeling a little more reassured. We'll keep going and see how it plays out.
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