Kim you have most definately done the right thing for your family and yourself. No doubt it is scarey to be leaving such a HUGE part of your life behind, Im sure it will fel strange for a while.
Like you said you dont want to miss out on you kids while they are little as you wont get this chance again. I am SAHM for that same reason, my only child is growing up fast and I dont want to regret missing this short time with him at home.
You will get used to living on the one wage in time, you family are very lucky to have such a dedicated wife and mother.
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