Thanks girls at least I know it's not just me. DP was a bit kinda "yeah that sucks but oh well" so I thought maybe it was just me.

Thanks for all the get well wishes too

Delph I know I'm probably wasting too much energy on thinking about it but it's really just got under my skin.

I did think about dobbing her in, but well I don't really know why I haven't. If my boss came out and asked, I don't think I could not tell, actually there's no way I wouldn't. I just don't feel right about going straight out and telling. That sounds so school yard I guess I try to think that there's a good reason for peoples behaviour when they do something that appears to be selfish, rude or the like. I just haven't been able to find a reason for it in this case.

Just to make it even worse, which could also be why it's dredged it up again. We have some compulsory training in a couple of weeks. It's at night and off site, over the other side of town actually. My co-worker M doesn't like driving at night so she asked if I would give her a lift, she lives close and we've car pooled before, no drama at all. Then last week L (who is sort of friends with M outside of work another long story altogether) found out I was giving M a lift. So she, after trying to get out of the training mind you, put her name down for the same session and asked if I'd take her as well. I must be a sucker because I said yes Now all I keep thinking is omg who are you??! You blatantly lie to me twice then have the gall to ask me for a lift I couldn't really say no I'm sure it would've caused a drama, and I can't be bothered with that at work. Probably why I'm here whinging to you guys

Twinkle I really hadn't thought of that! If she's that fluent a liar she just might try the compo card I guess.

Sorry if I'm rambling. I just felt I wanted to get it out there to sort out in my head what, if anything, I should do.