I went on leave 2 weeks before my dd was due. Right from the word go my boss (though she claims she was happy for us) was obviously annoyed that i fell pregnant. Things started to change from them, i was no longer asked to go away for weekend work, i wasn't asked to do presentations etc etc but it was done in a way that i could never say it was discrimination. She would always say in front of other people that hse wasn't letting me do these things because she felt i needed to take it easy, even though i knew that i was very capable of doing the job and doing it properly.

Since going on leave i have not heard a single thing from my work at all, except the gossip grapevines that have been going around about me. My boss was also a very close friend our ours. She was invited to our dd naming day as she played a huge role in both mine and df lives... and she forgot!!!! Its not the fact that she forgot the peeves me its the fact that 2 months later she still hasn't acknowledged that she wasn't there.
All my co workers from all over aus have come together in sydney for the last 3 days and had thier xmas party.... no invite for me to the xmas party or to have lunch/m.tea or anything with them. All the girls thought they would be seeing dd and I but no...no invite. And then...the xmas n/letter came out (sent to all doners etc) no mention that I had even had a baby despite me sending them a pic they asked for to publish.

It makes me so angry to think about it and how i have been treated. I'm meant to go back in feb but am trying to find anything to do so that i don't have to go back.

Am i over reacting?