Went back to work full time when DD was 14 months, DH went part time so DD was in child care three days a week. I had to go back to work in some capacity for financial reasons and as I can earn more decided I would go back full time and DH part time. However after my initial 10 week contract up I decided hated working full time, I missed DD too much and felt really missing out so I got a part time contract 3 days a week and DH went back full time. Once I was part time did not feel guilty as DD enjoys childcare and we needed the money. The money has meant that I am able to have 14 months off with DS too.(we would not have been able to afford another if I had stayed home full time) After that I will have to work again but will only do parttime till both are at school.

Before I went back to work I used to think I would love to be a full time SAHM - but I think for me personally the mix is best, I enjoy working and make the most of the time at home.