Good luck deciding. There is no 'right or wrong' answer to this one, what suits one person will not suit another.

I just wanted to say that it is OK to put your needs and wants first in this situation if you want to. Sometimes you need to be the supportive partner that makes sacrifices, but sometimes it is OK to go with what YOU feel and let your DH be the supportive partner and make sacrifices. Only you can make this decision, together with you DH. But you need to figure out want you WANT, before you can negotiate on what will happen. There are Pro's and Con's to either decision, but I am a big believer that you 'work to live' not 'live to work'. (And I say this as someone who LOVES canberra and would recommend everyone moves here permanently )

Good luck.