Thanks Rivlas,

I know its bad. I reminded DH of the recent DJ scandal and how that turned out.

I don't personally want a friendship with this guy, and DH certainly doesn't want a friendship out of the work environment. (this guy calls DH sweetheart, and makes DH feel uncomfortable already). I'm actually more worried that we will lose the other friends we have made through this mums group. (even though I know this is out of my control)

I have a feeling that a letter isn't too far off, whether DH is the one who gives it to him, or if it comes from someone else!