This has been a real eye opener to me. I went back to work at when DD was 6 months old and this time around going to do the same. With DD I was ready to go to work and get out of the house, this time around I have another 3 mths to stay home but I am not ready yet to go back to work, that might change in the next three months. I think as I know how busy our life is when I am work, I am not as keen to go back.

I always assumed (why I am not sure) that most members on her were SAHM and often feel a little stressed about going back so early.

I guess it all boils down to doing what will work for your own family and not worrying about what others think.