thread: work or study? I feel so guilty!

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  1. #1
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    May 2009
    SEQLD
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    I have and it is another option but again, if I'm working during the day and then studying at night I still feel like I wont have enough hours to give everyone the attention that get now.

    I know I just have to get over it and do something but I feel so guilty doing something for me, that is about me and going to change things for the kids and DH...does that make sense?

  2. #2
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    Jul 2006
    Melbourne
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    ^^ I think you said it perfectly - you have to do this for yourself. In the long run it will benefit all of your family, but in the short term there will be adjustments for everyone. Once they are used to them, it wil be like the 'norm'.

  3. #3
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    Oct 2008
    brisbane australia
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    do it! I studied for 4 years straight with a newborn in my last year, we were very poor but we did it, now number 2 is on the way and I'll be doing my masters in jan for another 2 years with 2 kids under 3 but in the long run it means more money and a happier life for ME! so don't be scared time will fly and you will be done before u know it!