I'm starting to think Zander has colic as well Tanya. Have you checked out the thread on it? Someone (FionaJill I think?) has done a really good post on what the symptoms are & how to help it.... It's worth a try I guess so you get some more sleep. No-one in either families has a lactose intolerance, but I might try the lactose free formula when I get another tin, bought a normal one this morning before seeing your post #-o

Aww Dinky, sorry to hear Hayley didn't pass her hearing test. Hopefully it isn't anything too major. What a shocker that you have to wait until January for more tests though, talk about giving parents more to stress about [-X

I got Zander some Dr Seuss books this morning in the mail - freebies, which is great I got them from the Scholastic website - they send you 5 books, 3 are free ones & you have 7 days to return the others or pay for them. I returned the others cos I don't have the $$ for them at the moment. But inside the box were brochures on all these other books & I've found a series that I want to buy called "Help Me Be Good". I think there are 20 of them, stories about disobeying, teasing, throwing tantrums, stealing, interrupting etc. They look really good & at $9.95 each it's worth it I think if they help with manners & that sort of stuff.