The tantrum age is the hardest I reckon, and I hope you get through to your treasures Vanita about the reactions to Rhianna, as they are making it worse. I had no problems with Jemma and a new baby though and she was 18mths when Jessica was born. You prob won't either, you guys know how to give attention to more than one child at a time so as long as Rhianna doesn't feel totally out of the loop you shouldn't hve big probs.

Jemma does the crying/yelling thing where you don't have a clue what they want, and it is so annoying.

CHeers Michelle