Shannon, Zander was getting really cranky in his capsule from about 3 months old, he'd arch his back scream everytime I tried to put him in. The only thing that has solved it was when we got his new forward facing carseat last weekend - he's happy now cos he can see what's going on. Only problem is that Jessalyn has quite a while to go before she can be forward facing cos it's 8kg when they turn round..... Have you tried hanging toys from the straps that go to the ancor point? They seemed to work for us one I finally managed to get him into the seat!

Awww Debs, maybe Gabby has taken on your mood too today? Do you think it might be hormonal related? You thought AF was on the way didn't you? Grrr at the cafe making you feel like you were imposing. I'm sure had they been nicer & you stayed longer they would have made more money - do they not realise that?! I hope you & little miss are feeling better soon - maybe you should have a long soak in a bubble bath together?