Oh gosh, Tanya! Your poor brother!! Any wonder you feel that way about having a boy. Maybe best to stick with girls then, hey?
Actually, I sort of kwym.... in a small way. When I got pregnant with Gabby, as much as I would have liked a boy - I was glad when she turned out to be a girl. Only because the only boy Mum and Dad had was still-born (and he was their first pregnancy). I just felt that having a girl would make it different and the same thing would be less likely to happen?? I know it's a silly rationale, but I think if I knew I was having a boy, I would have been even more stressed out about having a still-birth. Things like that can mess with your head, big time!!

LOL @ writing the note in her book. I might just do that! Mind you, I don't see her until Gab is 12 months so she probably won't even notice. Still, at least I will have documented it!