We're doing ok here at the moment. I've figured out DS a bit more so I'm better at settling him - although I'm sure this is only temporary!

If I get the chance - I might check out what my library has this week - thanks for the suggestion Taurusa!

Shoegal - well done on the sleep! What a clever little boy you have there! I wouldn't put too much faith in those 'percentile' thingys... every little person is unique and your boy is just where he is supposed to be. Well done mamma! I'm also about to look at some weight loss techniques - haven't lost much at all since the birth. But I do eat a lot of bad food at the moment! Will try to get that under control in the next week or so... but am always so hungry!! Need to lose about 16 kgs to get back to where I was before pregnancy hit!

Sharon - I'm too scared to rouse DS for a 'sneaky feed'. Not sure it would work anyway as he seems quite determined that things are done on his terms! I'd probably be wasting my time (and milk - as he has EBM and once he's fed from the bottle, I'm supposed to throw out the leftovers). Sounds like it would work well for those of you lucky enough to put your babies to the breast...

On the partner issue - DH & I are going along quite well. Had some words today but I'm really proud about how grown up we were. We didn't get petty or have cheap shots, but were able to tell each other how we felt and cleared some things up quite maturely. It probably helps that we've been together for 18 years now so we pretty much know each other and we don't need to play games anymore!

Have updated the photo below - he's smiling well now. So adorable!