Squidipa - I can't totally understand how it feels to not have your kids there, but I do know how empty my house feels when the kids are just gone for the day ... and I know how empty I felt when I was in hospital without them around me and I didn't see them for days on end ... I can't even bear to think of them being with someone else ... maybe that's why I have a big family - so that if the grandparents ask for one or two, we can say "take one, take them all" KNOWING that neither side has the room to take them all LOL!! Plus, we don't trust my mum's or DP's dad's driving!! (they are both pretty scary!)

hehehe ever since I was a teenager, I have always had the feeling that I would have a set of twins! (and that was before I knew that I had a family history!! And WAY before I met DP!!)