Oh no dd My 1yo niece had a lump removed from her neck a couple of weeks ago that thankfully was benign. My SIL was beside hereslf and from seeing what she went through can understand your worries.
On the back thing, my DH's boss has had operations for disc prolapse due to injuries from a car accident. It sounds scary but if the risk of relief from the pain outweighs the risk of it getting worse then getting the op could be a huge benefit. It's just that he might need to rethink his job situation. Boss has had his operated on twice. The first time he did norty stuff like lifting and stuffed it up again so now he doesn't lift a thing.
Kelly glad to hear Charlotte is getting better
Sarah how clever is William

Well I'm up for a Lollypops meet! No more creche now (I've decided to take them out) so Thursday I'll have the boys or Friday they have kinder. They've got a cold but hopefully by then it will be gone. I so hope Caleb and I don't end up with it though!
dd Lollypops is a playcentre in Narre Warren. If you feel like coming over then please do, we'd love to meet you and DAWN you too!
Actually I wonder where is a good half way point? We could do a meetup halfway I reccon!