was up about 5 times with Molly last night she is so full of cold again so is very miserable DD1 is all better and all the swelling has subsided. I'm supposed to be going on a girls night tonight leaving DH wiht the girls but really anxious about it as i know he doesnt cope well when the are unwell and Molly is super grumpy. He doesnt really get that she might just want a cuddle iykwim he likes to be able to *fix* the problem and have her happy but not so easy when they feel crappy.