Hoody - hugs your way too. Dont feel so bad having a spill, everyone knows about me and my stupid 'partner' issues. ive been all over the place for 9 years lol
As for "happy families" thats up to each individuals opinion of what one actually is. Ive come to realise Ash has a happy family already with or with out daddy in the picture cos hes got ALOT of love around him already. And from personal experience, kids know everything, if mummy are daddy arent happy.... the kids will know somehow somethings up. Making the decision today to get on with my life without rob as a "happy family senario" was a great lift off my shoulder. I know our situations are very different, but you need to look after you too and you should have and deserve a man who respects you too!