I think its sad too.. I don't know why he wouldn't want to shout it from the roof tops kwim? Hopefully they take the news well . If they want to see Ash will you allow that? as in visitation and all that..
Wowsers, all the birthdays are all going to come around quickly now.
Liz - thanks for the tip, will check it out.
Lori - I hope your day is getting better. Monique is really good at pushing away too.
MoM - how are you today?
Buzzie - I was confused too for a second thinking that they would see Ash on your FB but I get it now. I really hope Rob tells them because it isn't fair that his family have a gorgeous grandson/nephew that they don't know about. I hope all goes well for his SIL. I don't see why there should be a problem you talking to his family especially if you get along well and she might be upset that nobody said anything to her about Ash but from what it sounds like, Rob made the decision not to tell. Sure it will be emotional for everyone involved, but I really think the sooner it is out the better. You have done an amazing job of raising Ashie already and that won't change.
Thanks to everyone who has added me on their FB. It is nice looking at all family pics and makes it feel more like you're real, if you know what I mean.
Miss will be waking up soon so I best be off to do a few things.
Thanks tinsel
Liz - yep thats right :S
Nic - Thats my biggest fear i think atm, visitation. If Rob and I were together i think it would be great and ash can know that side of his family too. Robs sisters daughter (Ashs cousin) just turned one and what a shame there would be 3 babies all about the same age growing up together.
I really would have to play it by ear and see how they react. Under no circumstance will i bring Ash into it unless everyone was happy and getting along. The last thing i want to do is confuse or upset him.
I think them already knowing me from back in high school days is a good thing tho, so they wont think im just a one night stand tart. hopefully most of the anger will just be at him for not telling.
Mum is really sad for his parents as she is sympathising from a grandparent point of view.
Who's bubbas next in line for the big 1 !!?? I think its Nic's Olivia..
Hi all.
Liz-
Happy First Birthday, To Kayla! Hope you have a very lovely day little one.
Thankyou eveyone for your kind words,had a crappy day,and have an migrane,some of the relatives have been fighting over funeral arrangements.I?m fed up now.
Anyway I?m too lazy to do personels today,but hope everyone is good,have a great afternoon.
I just wanted to say that all you ladies on BB are wonderful kind and caring,THANKYOU ALL. Susan & family.
Susan.. I hate when families get like that.. I hope they are able to come to thier senses soon and realise they are still here and not to waste it fighting..
Sorry i have been MIA lately but things are crazy here. DH and i are still having issues but at the same time we are working on them iykwim. Molly is starting to pull herself up on things and has taken to crawling like a crab on hands and feet instead of hands and knees. Just too cute. Her cold is still lingering which is driving me mad. I am so over snot infested children. Well i dont really have time to post properly but thanks to those who added me to FB...........Now i just have to remember who is who lol.
OOH i think Molly's birthday is next then Olivia's. Molly's is a week tomo.
Thats ok with all the posting, like i said just dont tell anyone on here you recieved it till the last week.
Well Robs SIL had her bub, c/sect tonight. a little boy. i was really hoping it would be a gril so rob holds the only boy and it would be more important to there family - evil thinking i know. But its ok, now the 2 brothers have sons each so itll be interesting when he finds out, if the brother will be supportive or not.
I finished Ashs box tonight. think it need more bits on it, kinda did it really big than planned, will put pics up tomorrow
Hoody - hope your kiddies get better
Alicia - Good to hear Olivia is doing well again!
You girls are funny.
Ive started putting ash to bed and doing all my bits on the lappy. i never used to so my bodys not used to it and i feel really tired in the morning. but i would rather sit on the lappy whilst hes asleep then neglect him lol - Hes glued to The night garden atm so i dont mind i bit of catch up now.
What gross pics were u looking at Nic lol dont know if i want to know but curious.. like dead bodies or something LOL
I ordered Ashs birthday cake this week YAY - $120 later. But its from the BEST cake place and its got the wiggles on it! gonna love it!! mummy too YUMMO!!
Well i think im offically the most hormonal/maternal person atm and im HATING it. All these ppl around me having babies ahhhhh - a girl in my mothers group had another baby last week and another one is hoping she is and they all want more babies now! maybe if Ash wasnt such an easy baby i would think otherwise ?? i need to get out more! I just wish i could be a stay at home mum forever and just keep having babies - like that jewish woman on tv a while ago having her 17 baby and with names starting with 'J' LOL - her 17 bub was a 5 hour labour and it pretty much fell out LOL - ok *slap* Buzzie, back to reality!
Hahaha Lauren that last post was pretty funny My labour was 3 hours- I think after 17 I'd be popping 'em out in 20 minutes flat!! I'm not sure if I should order a cake or make one- I'll try to make one but will probably end up ordering one last minute
I really need to get back on my msn. Will do today I promise.
Nic- What gross piccies did you find?? I want in!!
Had a crappity crap day yesterday. Ty screamed for an hour before each sleep. Car battery went flat and had to call NRMA. And got a lovely phone call from a family member asking if we could do them a 'small favour'- refinance our mortgage and lend them $40 000 Hmmm not too sure about that....
ETA- I have been waiting for a chance to use this emoticon and none's come up so I'm going to stick it here anyway coz I love it
hahahahahah I love her, cranky old witch...
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Hope you have a very lovely day little one.
Susan.. I hate when families get like that.. I hope they are able to come to thier senses soon and realise they are still here and not to waste it fighting..
maybe if Ash wasnt such an easy baby i would think otherwise ?? i need to get out more!
I just wish i could be a stay at home mum forever and just keep having babies - like that jewish woman on tv a while ago having her 17 baby and with names starting with 'J' LOL - her 17 bub was a 5 hour labour and it pretty much fell out LOL - ok *slap* Buzzie, back to reality!
Hmmm not too sure about that....
I love her, cranky old witch...
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