Here's hoping that Olivia will be a happy settled babe now... it really is trial and error to try and get the balance right isn't it?
Re the cows milk, not sure if this will help but to get Jake to start drinking it I used to put 1/2 teaspoon of banana quik in it and warm it up... he loved it! I'm now starting to reduce the amount I put in and in a couple of weeks hope to phase it out alltogether. Don't know if that was the right thing to do but it certainly worked for us and my boobies get a rest during the day lol