susan - how terrible your mum saying that! If i was as lucky as you i would be having LOTS of babies too. Its a blessing your able to have them, dont think otherwise!!

Bekz - i can understand hubby wanting a boy but its a bit sad he will be upset and wont come to the ultrasound. Maybe just dont tell him the sex at all and say if he wont come then dont find out at all till its born.....?? is he forgetting it is the mans fault what sex they are!! LOL Hope he doesnt make it a harder time for you if its a pink bundle.

Adkins - yes ive condsidered the face to face thing, but as Rob still lives at home with them, it would be hard to rock up at there door and garentee if he was at work or not. Plus with a letter i got more juicy detail in and had the time to think about what i really wanted to say.
Maybe they did get the letter and have egnored it, so if i rocked up there i would look like an idiot... so i really dont know.