Babies Born December 2007 #24

[Buzzie]

OOOOh forgot to mention... Shane warne was a paitent at our practise today!!!!!
Hes ot the awards on tv tonight and the guys were giving him crap he had just come from the dentist... that was us!!!! LOL - But i just missed him cos i started late today Im SOOOO bumbed! but hes coming back so ill have to pretend im working that day and go in a see him pml

[alicia]

Hi everyone,

I have read through all the posts but now my brain has given in I know lots of people have mentioned grizzly teething bubs and I can join that club. Olivia actually opened her mouth and asked for Bonjela last night, which is a new thing.

We officially have a toddler now! Olivia is so unbelievably happy with herself and is loving being able to carry things around the house, especially my phone which I had to go hunting for twice today At Gymbaroo this afternoon she was showing off a lot and doing her little waddle walk (so cute) all over the place.

Lauren, come on we are all on edge!

[Buzzie]

Alicia - thats so cute! she must look adorable with a handbag LOL

Ash has started counting to 3 tonight!! its so cute.. i cant believe the amount of words he picks up and copys so quick!

[Hoody]

WTG on Ash counting

Had a good night here YAY. Molly seems a bit happier today thank goodness. We have playgroup and havent been for about 5 wks so looking forward to seeing all the kids and cant wait to see if any of the girls notice my weight loss Today was weigh in day and i have lot 5.3kg and am over half way there. Considering its only been 5 weeks i am really happy. I have put some new pics on FB. You can really see the diff in my face esp since Molly's birthday party. I didnt realise how much i put on til i saw those photos compared to my new ones.

Hope you all have a good day. A bit cooler here today which is nice

[aussienic]

Hi girls.. Im not well today so just a quick Hi..

Waiting on Simon to come home so we can go to the school. He took Olivia and Jacob shopping os I am enjoying (well not really its to quiet) a break..

Will catch up tomorrow.. achoo

[mummy of many]

Hi everyone,

Hey Lauren- You could ask "Warney,"for his mobile number,he`s available and single again,we saw him on the awards last night,the commentators really gave it to him,it was so funny. Ask him to text you hun!!!!! you can become a celebrity wife,lol.

Hi, Nic & Alicia-hows things going,god i hate teething it`s the pits.

Natalie- Hey your friend Carly is in this weeks "That`s Life Mag " with her story of Christian & her family,it was lovely,about "The Writtings In The Sands" hope your well hun.

Hi to everyone else will try to come back later after dinner,lol.

[Buzzie]

OK GIRLS ....... ARE YOU READY FOR IT......

IM CRAPPING MySELF.... Last night i sent the msg to robs SIL.. ok all good i thought...
just got home from work and had this HUGE email from her saying - youve put me in a hard place, i love my family and protect them.. blahblahblah.. you have left me with no choice but Robs brother - who also saw the email - said hes going to talk to rob - I HADNT EVEN SENT THE LETTER YET!!! she emailed me at 11 this morning, its 830pm now and i havent heard.... i dont know what his brother would say besides who this freak saying she has a secret about you..SOO i had no choice.. i said i so hope you havent spoken to rob yet and i understand where you are at, i also love my family and protect them but rob is also my family... hes my sons Father!!!
and left it at that...
Her email was pretty fair enough tho.. she said she would offer rob support if he needed it with something and if there was something i needed to share with his family i should just say it..
i also emailed her the letter and said i know ive done the right thing, rob should have done it 2 years ago!!! SO IM CRAPPING MYSELF SOOOO MUCH.. and the first thing there going to do it besides FREAK will go to Rob and/or his parents.. so if shes going to check her email tonight , it will all be out the bag tonight.... otherwise im sure Robs brother had already got to him and Robs HOPEFULLY crapping himself even worse thinking im going to tell them.. OR hes already telling them now what has happened to save me getting to them.... OR Robs brother hasnt said anything yet because i havent recieved any abusive sms's!!
oMG OMG OMG my hearts racing i had no idea i would be this upset by it.. its NOT how i wanted them to know... now ive got guilt trips there gonna find out on a negative note !!!!!!!!!!! BLAHHHHHHH - Ill keep you all posted if i hear back!!! Christ can you imagine what there thinking right now!!!!

[mummy of many]

Hi Lauren,gee hun i feel for you . I think you have done the right thing though,Robs parents should know they have a beautiful grandson,Go & make yourself a nice cuppa and try to relax,hey it takes 2 to make a bub,why would Robs brother send you nasty sms`s or e-mails,if he does keep a copy of them ok. Hope you will be ok,hun.

Gee it`s very quiet tonight.

Nic- hope your feeling better soon,too.

Well, I have my Mammagram & Ultra sound tomorrow,I?m sh-tting myself actually,not in a good mood really.

[Tinsel]

Buzzie - ARRRRRRGGGGHHH it's out there! You should feel relieved and they should calm down a bit but I understand that you might be crapping yourself. I would be too and I hope Rob is . I really hope he doesn't send you abusive messages because he is the one that has been keeping them in the dark for so long and has all the explaining to do. You have definitely done the right thing by Ashy as well. The SIL will definitely check her email. How could she not!

MoM - I will be thinking of you tomorrow. Let us know how you go. Sound like you could do with a lovely cuppa too.

Nic - hope you are feeling better soon.

Hoody - way to go on the weight loss. Saw your new pic and you look great. I'm so jealous of your motivation. Wish I had some.

Alicia - how cute are they walking around.

I think the 3rd top tooth is making Monique a bit cranky. She seems to be settling in at childcare a bit better but still makes me sad when we leave her crying. Meanwhile it is my third day back at work and I am soooooo tired. Don't know how I'm going to be come Friday!

Well, I'm off. Catch up with everyone later.

[Hoody]

OMGoodness Lauren. YOU HAVE DONE RIGHT THING. At the end of the day the news will be hard for them to take and it may take them a little while to get in contact with you. I am sitting here feeling all anxious for you but as tinsel said the hard part is over you should feel relieved. Have that cuppa and relax. Things may not have gone to plan but the end result of them knowing will be the same. This is totally irrelevent but thought i'd share- one of my close friends got Pg to a guy she had been having a "casual" relationship with. He didnt want to know and told her to get an abortion. She booked it but couldnt go through with it so he basically disowned his unborn baby and said no one in his family would ever know etc etc. Well we looked up his parents No and she called. She was too upset so the phone got chucked at me and I had to tell his parents that their son was to be a father in X no. of wks. I told them straight what he'd told my friend about having nothing to do with it and said that was fine if it was what he wanted but we believed she had a right to know iykwim and if he wasnt going to do it then we were left no choice. Anyway long story short my friends baby's father has NO part in his DS's life (he has seen him twice in 19 months) but his mother does. Yes this poor lil boy is missing a father but he still has 2 nanna's now. It was the hardest phonecall of my life and i wasnt even the pg one.

I really hope you hear something soon and get some sleep tonight.

Tinsel- thanks for commenting on my pics

MOM- GL for tomo be sure to let us know how you go on. I will be thinking of you.

Nic- Get well soon.

Very cranky baby again this arvo and i really wanted her in bed early but then our puppy got stung by a bee so we had to go to the vets. Not a fun arvo. 2 tired Kidlets and a puffy swollen puppy. Oh well i can see the humour in it now. Rocking up to the vet with the kids ready for bed and cranky and a swollen Chihuahau.

[BellyBelly]

I agree you've done the right thing Loz, you will just have to deal with the reactions, but they will get over it... remember all the times you would front up at home with a new tattoo and mum would freak and go nuts for a day or two?! LOL

Hang in there, it will pass and become old news once the initial shock is over...

[Buzzie]

hi everyone, thankyou so much for your comments, they helped SO much.
I just feel like crying and i couldnt stop watching ash last night feeling so scared im doing the right thing for him and how angry i am at rob for what we 'could' of been if he just stepped up and told them a LONG time ago, i would not be going through this.
I didnt get to sleep till after 12 klast night... mostly cos ash wanted to party but i have woken up this morning a little calmer and i have put my phone on silent. Im waiting for an email from the SIL but i know i dont have to answer my phone if i dont want!

susan - Good luck today with your mamagram, will be sending positive vibes your way.

hoody - off to check out ur pics now.

tinsel - Im so in your boat with work, except im not pg so it must be 10 times worse..
Hang in there with childcare.... Ash had his FIRST non crying day yesterday!! WOOT!

Kelly - lol your a crack up... i think the worst one was getting my tongue pierce.. wow that took months to get over PML

[Lolli]

OMG!!!!!!!!!! Lauren!!!! You have DEFINATELY done the right thing hun. If Rob had been a man about it all in the first place, you wouldn't be in this situtaion. The fact that they will find out in a negative way is his fault, not yours. You are just doing the best for your little man and being the best mummy around

Ok, this isn't nearly as dramatic as Lauren's, but I have had a truly crap coupla days and need a whinge. I'll try and keep it simple.

Ty and I have both had a virus, we've been vomiting non stop. Tues arvo i got heart palpitations (I get tachycardia aometimes, especially if I'm sick or dehydrated) and got rushed to hospital with a heart rate of 200 bpm. They stuck me eight times to get a vein for a canula, and collapsed all the freakin' veins in both arms and both hands before getting one in my wrist (thank god, they were about to go for my neck). Lots of blood tests, a bag of saline and some anti neausea meds later, they come back and tell me I'm PREGNANT (holy crap!).

So i peak out. Ty has been just feral the last month or so, and dh and I had just decided to hold off on the TTC for a while. Then yesterday arvo I start bleeding.

*sigh* So now I don't know if this bubba will stick or not. And I feel so guilty for panicing instead of being grateful. I have an ultrasound tomorrow arvo, so we'll see what happens then.

Hi to everybody- sorry, I'm doing a selfish one today and no personals. They pumped another 7 vials of blood out me this morning and I'm exhausted...

[Buzzie]

BIG HUGS Lori - that doesnt even compare to me hun! thats big stuff when its your health. Take is slow today and rest up.. i hope its a sticky one and they stop poking you with needles! ouchies, let us know how u go tomorrow

[aussienic]

Wow Lauren and Lori

Still not feeling 100% so won't do big personals

Congrats Lori.. Hope you have a sticky baby in there

Lauren: Even is the poop hits the fan this needed to be done.. More for Ashers sake.. You have done the right thing.

[Olive]

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