Hi Teena, sorry to hear about DH fingers crossed he finds something soon.
I cant give u advice on stopping BF as im not ready too, but with the milk, ash refused cows milk also about a month or 2 ago when i did try weaning, and just last week ABC tried uht full cream and he screamed when they took it off of him (it was another babys cup lol) SO i guess you just have to keep trying different milks maybe or different times and if shes ready shell go for it..... ?