Liz: :hug: Poor little guy.. I hope he starts to feel better today
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Liz: :hug: Poor little guy.. I hope he starts to feel better today
Oooh Susan I love your new avi!! Yay for you!!
Liz- Big :hug: hun, that must be awful. Poor little guy.
Nic- You got your RAK too yay :dance:
Oh I am sooooo sick. I had m/s evry day when I was pregnant with Ty and I am really hoping this won't be a repeat performance...
Love the new Avvy Susan :)
Hi Lori ;)
Sorry you have Ms! Hope it doesn't last the whole pregnancy..
Me yeh today just stinks.. Kids were all up by 5:30 and were screaming and fighting with each other by 5:35 *sigh* 2 at school 2 having morning tea now.. Fingers crossed the day improves
Olivia was almost asleep before but woke up when I took her off (she leeches when asleep) and decided she wanted her shoes on .. this girl wears shoes all day unless yu can manage to get them off and hide and all.. If she sees them she has to have them..
:lol: Nic Ty is the same with his shoes, he just loves them... walks up to me holding them then sits and trys to put them on himself...
It just drives me a little batty after a while lol.. especially cus they recommend they don't wear shoes that often.. I try and keep the shoes that are basically likes socks on her during the way.. today she has decided its her crocs she wants though..
hahaha she just tormented Jacob :lol: That was soooo funny. He had some blocks he had made into a car on the table next to him.. she ran up grabbed it and threw it in the cupboard.. he ran after her yelling. too funny... Pay backs a BB isn't Jacob :lol:
Hi girls,
Tincel- Hi hun,just think 14 weeks wont take long to pass,at least you get some quality time with DH,lol.Hope time flys for you sweety.
Hoody-Hi gee i hope Mia`s Ashtma improves for you hun,our DS Bradley is a very bad suffer,but all this weather change is bringing on more attacks,so scary for all of us. I hope Molly will be ok hun,must be frustrating for her,hun.Lets hope the Doctor`s can work something out for her soon,I feel for you Nat. :hug:
Bekz- hi there,it`s not hard to become overwhelmed at time hun,i feel teary some days & I?m not pg,lol.Hormones are the pits ay! And to top things off DH,doesn`t understand why we have days like this,he makes me feel worse sometimes,but i know he`s trying to help. Chin up hun,we are here if you need to talk. :hug:
Lori- Hi, If your MS is really bad,ask your Doctor for Maxalon tablets for nausea & vomitting,thay work well & are ok to take during pg. Hope you feel better very soon,i had ms very bad with my first 4 pg,but nothing with Kieren,work that one out,lol.
Kts64- hi I say NO all the time,I suppose it`s the simplest thing that comes into my mind,lol. If DS`S are doing something or touching something i just move them away,& try to give them a simple explaination,other wise just walk away from their Tantrums. It`s not easy at any age,bubs or tennagers.:rolleyes::wall:
Jas-hi there sounds like you have your hands full too,hun.My 2.5 year old annoys the crap out of dd,when she is doing her home work,so noe i lock him out of the kitchen area,just so dd can consentrate,iykwim.
Buzzie-Hi hun I hope Ash is on the road to recovery,kieren has been un well for a week with an ear infection,no fun here either,not much sleep here!!!
Chocolate for dinner my DH would love that,lol.:D
Liz- Hi hope ds is better very soon for you too,Asthma has been effecting alot of kids atm,must be our crazy weather. It`s very scary for us all when they have a bad attack,there`s nothing worse than sitting at hospital. Take care.
Lori & Nic- Thanks for the Avi comments,shame i wasnt that thin in real life,though,that was like 15 years ago.....Sighing....... but i do appreciated the lovely thought,from a wonderfull kindhearted person,I wish i knew who it was though.
Nic-you are extra special hun,lol....you have many people who love you around here! Cant wait to see you Avi too.
ok,off to tidy up before dinner,god knows what the kids are doing,DH is out side mowing the grass,we actually had sunshine all day today,YAY the kids can go out side...:dance: Bye all.
Morning (well almost afternoon) Ladies.. How is everyone on this stinking hot day?
Olivia is 15 months old today.. Can you believe it.. 15 months has just flown by.. Now I get sleep life is just nice again.. and for the last 3 nights she hasn't woken up every hour or so till I go to bed either.. she has stirred but I haven't had to go to her.. Do you know how nice it is to put her to bed and not go to her till the morning??? *bliss*
I have managed to avoid the morning nap here today but she is getting a tad grumpy now.. Wishing simon would hurry home with lunch then she wil eat and hopefully sleep 12-2.. fingers crossed.. Cus thats the sleeping pattern I am trying to get her in...
Well daddy-o just got home.. Off to eat...
well i finally sent Ethan off to daycare today - one day out of three isnt bad. Was planning on getting sleep but everyone around me is mowing of doing something noisy! Hopefully Ethan sleeps tonight.
Alex has started his recorder lessons - so noisy but i am hoping that it will give him a pick me up. He seems so depressed lately. I am wondering whether it is because he is no longer the only one at school now and he doesnt like sharing that attention with Jack.
I hope everyone who is unwell or has unwell kids gets better soon, the the m/s fades for those of you who are pg lots of warm sweet tea and plain biscuits worked for me.
Nic - that does sound like bliss... i am yet to go through a single night without waking atleast a min of 5 times... :(
These last couple days ive been so unwell with migranes.. i know i get headaches alot but i cant believe i finally know what a real migrane is now.. 2 days straight of non stop pain.. i couldnt even move around bending down to pick up ash felt like 2 people where smashing either side of my head with bricks and my eyes were gonna pop out..LOL
I finally took nurofen migrane for the first time in 2 years ... mmmm was nice!!
Ash is at ABC today so im taking it pretty cruisey... Im spending the weekend at my dads house whos going away and needs his kitten looked after.. im so looking forward to the break away from 3 annoying dogs here...Im also hoping rob will come down and visit now we will be alone...
I tried to get him to catch up this week but he works too late so only wants to catch up on weekends.. how bloody crap.. if ash meant that much he would make more effort!! Ash will take forever warming up to him just seeing him once a week on weekends.. grrh
anyways i better go finish packing....
wow been a quiet 24hours in here...
vent coming up.....
I had such a crap night lasnt night... ash had terrible tummy aches and i was up ALL night, pacing it got to mid night and i thought i would go sit in the lounge try to get him moving a bit but he decided to just sleet so at 1am i got back into bed and it got a little better afterwards but still had to keep waking up to comfort him every hour or less, i cant even remember.
Dads kitten was driving me nutts, just wanted to play and crawl on ash.. and when i locked her out the room she sat by the door and cried.. AS well as about 10-11pm rob starts smsing me saying his whole family are over and hes telling his 2 sisters and BIL about ash.
They took the news well aparently and are pretty excited to meet him...
But i actually got quite angry last night.. i know they got his fluffed version and besides the SIL and brother the rest dont know the real story, which i know i have to get past, but hes messging me saying they want to meet the grandson, cousin.. blah blah and i said several times you need to start seeing him before they meet him cos frankly ash is affraid of rob right now and i feel like now the parents know and are excited, rob is wanting to show him off like hes some trophy and proud dad....i could be totally wrong here.. but he is still the ***** that has treated me and ash like ***** the last 2 years and hes obviously not showing any intrest in making an effort to see ash...
I asked him this week to catch up cos i was taking ash to the beach.. and he was too busy working so i said fine i wont ask again (he always says he works and cant) and last night after i said u need to see him he said i do want to, i said well you have my number and he said he would talk to me today... well its almost 5 and havent heard a thing.. im soo freaking p!ss3D GGRRHHHH......
ok vent over... ho hum...
Hi all,
First off, Nic your avvy looks hot **wolf whistles**
Lauren hun I don't even know what to say. He sounds like such a p****. If he won't make any effort, it is possible to by-pass him altogether and contact his mum, and gradually introduce Ash to his other grandparents? You can do it without Rob, and show him he needs to pull his socks up. Maybe it will give him a kick up the butt, and if not, then at least Ash will know the extended family. He sounds really immature hun- I think he needs to grow up a bit.
I am sooo tired. I went out last night to see the Veronica's with a mate and we got home late and now I am paying for it big time :lol: Going to try and have an early night...
Lori - he is very immature, and i did contemplate that exactly about his family. i dont know how well it would sit tho.... :(
Hun, maybe if you explained to his mum what you're trying to do and the way Rob is responding, and explain you don't want to overwhelm Ash and would like to introduce him the family a little bit at a time, and you don't want to cause any trouble but you'd like to start the process asap, while Ash is still really young. Maybe she'll understand that- she's a mum, after all. And if Rob doesn't like, well then, bad luck!!
I really feel for you. You're trying to do the right thing and he is just making it so difficult.
Hiya Ladies..
Lauren: :hug: I would say give him time but seriously he had 9 months before he was born and now 14 months.. I;m sorry but its time to think of you and Ash. (please don't think I am being mean) I just think bugger what he wants now.. If you want him to know his Grandparents then go right ahead.. When the time comes and Ash asks who is Father os or why he doesn't have much to do with him tell him upfront.. Meeting the Grandparents will just be like you going to a mums group or something and meeting other people.. Ash doesn't have to go there without you.. Drop round for coffee from time to time.. ease into it.. :hug: I really hope things work out for Ash and your sake.
My father had every opportunity to get to know me as a child and he never did.. I re met him at my wedding 10 years ago and he still doesn't make an effort.. I haven't seen him for over 3 years and he only lives just over an hour away now.. I knew my Nanna.. I didn't see her much but I knew who she was.. I don't feel like I have missed out on anything great by not having my Father in my life.. I had my Grandfather who was like a father figure to me.. My mum did a wonderful job as a single mum as will you.. Rob has to understand as time goes on it gets harder and harder..
:hug: You are doing a wonderful job and I hope you get some great support from his family eveb if he isn't involved
Now I am off my soapbox :blush: (hope I haven't offended Lauren. If I have I don't mean to)
I am a very red girl tonight... We went to Agnes Waters (beach town) today with some people Simon work with.. very long hot but fantastic day.. I made triply sure the kids had sun cream on and I forgot myself.. *sigh* When we got home we went over to one of the guys houses for a swim and I was having a great time till Jacob threw something into the pool and split my eye brown open.. *woops* Danm it hurt.. It didn't need anything but a towel held to it or a while lol.. Jacob kissed it better and said I put a bandaid on it mummy then I take it off when it all better.. Such a sweet heart
Hope everyone is having a nice weekend...
Hi ladies,
Another wet day here,Kieren is much better,but Tiger has Croupe again.
I wish i knew why he keeps getting it....sighing.....We are having a very quiet weekend just watching kids movies. Today we had a really bad thunder storm come through and the little one were crying it kept making us jump,the thunder was deafening,we even had hail,what is it with our stupid weather.
Nic- I love your sexy Avi,hun! looking good,lol. Hope you eye isn`t too sore,i bet that was a shock.....kids! Sounds like you had a really good family day.
Buzzie- Well hun,I think Lori & Nic have summed things up really well,I think you should just get on with your life,gradually introduce the Grandparents if they seem keen,but as for Ash`s dad,well,words can`t really describe a bogan like him,you don`t need him hun.
Lauren you must make Ash your first priority! which we know you do,your a terrific Mum & you need to focus on Ash & yourself now,stuff Rob,it`s his loss,bloody Tosser! Sorry hun,but how much more upset do you need to go through,ay..... I?m with Nic...sorry i try not to offend,but Ash needs people in his life who want to be with him,hun.:hug:
I really hope thing work out the way you would like then too.
Lori-Hi how is ya? Sounds like your been out party hard my luv,lol. You have fun, hun,enjoy yourself while you can.How`s little Ty going? Hey,did you get that bad storm today,it was scary.....:rolleyes:
Well hope everyone is doing well,I?m so tired from the kids being sick,but crap happens. night all.
Thankyou everyone, no im not offened because you are all very right, how long do i have to keep hurting myself and as well as ash also when hes old enough to undertsand his dad is messing him around. He never ended up msging me yesterday.
One other reason i wanted his family to know besides so ash could know them was so he can start taking responsibility for his actions and start having some family pressures, so i guess at least he has some of that i guess...maybe..
ok time to move on and just get on with me and ash..hes NOT getting my new address when i move anyway, so dont have to worry about that.
thanks so much everyone...
susan, hope Tiger gets over this round of croupe asap...poor bubba
Hi all,
Lauren- Big :hug: sweetie... I wish I could personally give him a huge kick up the butt for you...
Susan- We didn't get that storm hun, it must have gone around us. You poor things, I hate thunder storms. Hope Tiger's croup gets better, croup is so nasty. **touch wood** it's been a while since Ty's last bout of it.
Nic- Ouchies on the eyebrow!! But kisses make it better, awwwwwww.
I am just so lazy atm, I can't be bothered doing anything... I am going to a BB meet up tomorrow (woot!!) and I have to give a speech on Tuesday that I only just found out about so haven't written yet :hide:
Buzzie - Wow you are having a tough time of it. Hugs sweets. I think Nic, Lori and Susan have given some great advice.
Susan - Glad Kieran is better and I wish Tiger a quick recovery.
Nic - Oouch Nic. I hope your eye gets better and your sunburn
Liz - I hope your DS gets better too.
Not much happening with us here. Loren is into everything as usual. She is quite cute atm, does Twinkle Little Star, dances in circles and gives her dolly a hug and kiss. Day 2 of daycare was harder. She cried for 1 hour after I dropped her off, but she settled and had a good time after that.
I was a bit stressy for a couple of days because I had the house sprayed for ****ies and then I got asthma and I did not feel bub move for 48 hours. I thought that the chemicals did some thing to the baby (what an idiot). Anyhow bub moved this morning for me so I think everything is ok. On the name choices so far Eva is winning. We just can't think of anything else.
Best go Miss Loren is having a hissy