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Wow we have such clever children, it's amazing how much they are aware of capable of.
My gosh PP sounds like Millies is well and turely on the move :) Hope you're feeling well, how's the tummy coming along?
Sounds like Nellie had a ball playing in the rain Audax :)
MadB sounds like Miri might be on her way to realising a new independance also, especially when she sees something she wants.
Sorry Charlotte i know it must be frustrating but Miss Hannah sounds so cute :lol: Thinking of you today. All the best and enjoy seeing you littleone xoox Oh thank goodness the banks are on the ball and that it was only 78cents.
All good here, Harper is sleeping really well. 7-8 hours some nights. We've come a long way. Must go she needs bed :)
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Hope all goes well today Charlotte! :hug:
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Hi all,
EJ, tummy is out of control. I was able to keep it a secret with Millie at work for ages, I think I told my faculty at 14 weeks and the kids/rest of the world at about 16. I have been harbouring a pudding belly for the past 4 weeks. I will tell my faculty on Tuesday at our meeting (at which point they will probably roll their eyes and say, duh, really?) and then the rest of the world can know. I need to call my aunties and tell them, I'm just so tired and unwell that I can't muster the energy for a big "hooray I'm pregnant" phone call.
Ah, Char, fraudsters! Glad the bank picked it up... and even more glad that Beez's scan went well xox
MadB, thanks for the backup there :) I asked DH last night if I could just quit work and stay home and sew, and he said, "Sure, if you can make some money out of it!"
Audax, pegs are AWESOME as far as Millie is concerned! She gets so excited when we go out to hang the laundry, I just give her a few from the bucket and she'll happily sit and play for ages!
New word: Poo. I was changing her nappy, giving her the usual running commentary, and the one word she picked up out of the whole narrative was 'poo'. Fabulous. I was carrying her down the hall with her nappy in the other hand, and she pointed at it and said 'poo'. Watched me flip it in to the loo: 'poo'. Saw me flush it, waved and said 'poo'. My clever girl :rofl:
We've had a baaaaad week. I know I shouldn't complain when she is generally such a good sleeper, but with her teeth and a bit of a cold on top of it, we have had very little sleep this week. I feel completely trashed. She has also been biting me a lot. I have a massive bruise on my arm from yesterday, we were at my niece's third birthday party at Maccas (oh dear lord, 18 kids in an unairconditioned room with an "I couldn't care less" Maccas party host) and I had to get her out from under a table, where she was trying to eat chips off the floor (eeeeew!). She latched onto my left arm and bit me so hard I have a bruise with distinct teeth marks in it.
I had a huge cry about it this morning, she was kicking me in the tummy while I was changing her nappy and pinching my hands, I called DH in to finish up and I just cried and cried. Part of it is obviously hormones (I also cried half an hour later when DH didn't say thank you when I gave him his cup of tea), but also it just hurts so much, physically and emotionally. And then of course when I was telling my Mum about it she said to bite or pinch her back!!! This from the woman who knows that biting me back didn't work on me when I was biting my sister!!!
Sorry about the vent - I'm sure it's just her teeth, last time she was biting and hitting me she stopped once her teeth came through, but if there's any advice please pass it on! When I tell her no she laughs! Is she too little for time out or something similar? I think I just need to be able to put her down and walk away so she knows it's not okay.
I hope you're all well.
xox
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PP big huge hugs from me and lots of sympathy. You are going through that horrible stage in my view from all three of my pregnancies. I hate the first 3 months with a vengeance.
I went through a stage where Charlie was biting Aidan quite a bit and i was never one who could bite back. Aidan may have bit back once or twice but it definatley wasn't a soultion in my view. I remember talking to my Family Day carer back when Charlie was doing it and she said it is a way of showing their affections/feelings/frustations, an inapropriate way at that but they just need to know it's not the way and maybe show them other ways. With the little ones and biting, scratching, hiting as it's hard to get through that it's not the right thing to do i do put them down, walk away and or show them you are upset. I'm not sure of others opinions on that but i would say that she is a little young for time out :) So mixed with her limited ways of communicating andI those gums giving her grief i hope things settle soon. Charlie has grown out of it and so far with Harper i have felt a few little bites but she only has one tooth so it's not painful as yet.
Oh and i'm getting back into my sewing. I've just finished making the romper (one of the patterns i emailed you) and i've cut out a few bibs and i have a few friends with new arrivals on the way so i have a few more things in mind. I wonder if one at Kinder will give me more sewing time??
I think i want another baby girls. I can't stop thinking about it, with Aidan we had this feeling of wanting to have a baby, with Charlie it was similar but it was also about giving Aidan a brother or sister. With Harper she was a sweet surprise and as much as she has presented a few more challenges i have enjoyed her so much and just don't feel like i'm done. I don't want to be pregnant just yet but i don't want there to be too much of a gap compared to the average of what we already have. It may never happen i have some convincing to do on DH's side but i think i'm going to give it a go. I look at our family and feel there is meant to be one more of us.
Hope you all had a good weekend. Talk soon ox
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They have no impulse control at this age PP. even though they understand what you're saying, if they want something, they want something. Removal and redirection are your best tools right now. But I'd also throw in explanation. Some people poo-poo explaining things to young children, but I think it's good. They do take it in and eventually, everything you do and say will be mirrored back at you :)
Me too EJ :) But not for a while.
I'm about to hit the wall with sleep.... just 3 hours would do me. it's been months :( I'm doing my first presentation for ABA group tomorrow. eeps.
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Hi there,
MadB, I feel extra bad about whinging about sleep now - gee I hope you can get a few hours straight soon :hug: How did your presentation go today?
EJ, hope DH will come around for you! I completely understand wanting another. Even on "bad" weeks I can still see myself with four kids.
Thanks for your support with the biting etc. I never just say no, I explain that it hurts when she does x. This morning I picked her up (she WANTED to be picked up) and she grabbed a handful of my neck (no other way to describe it) and pinched me hard. I said, "OUCH, Millie, pinching hurts me!", put her down on her bottom and moved away. She laughed and crawled towards me and I said, "No, that hurt," and put her back on her bottom. She burst into tears and I crouched down in front of her and talked to her quietly for a bit about being gentle and not hurting people. She stopped crying and hopped up for a cuddle, and was good for the rest of the day... she had a good sleep last night so I'm sure that helped a lot. I believe in explaining things to her as well, she is a bright little kid and hey, if she can pick up "poo" from my running commentary on changing her nappy, she is certainly able to listen and take things in.
Anyway. I saw the obs today and Pud is coming along nicely - I've been bumped back into August, which is where I suspected I should be anyway. Millie was a very good girl playing in the waiting room and watching the funny squiggly thing on the screen during the scan :)
Ack, work tomorrow. Better go.
xox
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Glad Pud is going well. I'm so excited for you!!
I've got my appt with the *new* OB today. *new* because I've had him when I went into labour at 28 weeks. Because there are only 3 OBs in the area (well, 2) sometimes it's pot luck who you have when you turn up in labour. Some women happen to have 2, some are too fast and just have the midwife. OB quiet spoken and smiles alot, but very nice. He's also Hannah's paed.
Hannah is getting her injections today just before I have my appt (in the same building). I've been in tears already this morning at the thought of it. Maybe thats the bad things about delaying it so long. You have extra time to think about it, Hannah's developed so much. I'm worried about her hating me. Thinking about taking a treat for her to eat when she gets out. My sister did that, she stuffed mini marshmallows in my niece's mouth. Not something I would do, but it worked for her. Might take some sultanas or buy a hot cross bun. She loves them! But she only gets a little piece.
Hannah bit me a few times yesterday. She immediately gets pulled off and the old "DO NOT BITE!" and taken across the room and sat down. She's not phased. Sometimes she'll cry, otherwise she'll just be really cute. She only really bites when she's happy or climbing (her new favourite activity.. why play with my toys when I can climb on the couch?)
That's all for the minute, I really have to go get ready to go to town later.
I really want to go to pancake day (Bit hard to ignore when it's held NEXT DOOR!). I might just stand on the back verandah and looking longingly at the CFA shed.
DH didn't want to go. I might make up some pancakes later..... wait. I've got no milk. Never mind. :rofl:
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Our new word: Bamba (Grandma) We've just been in Sydney for four days, I don't think she crawled at all, she has really nailed the art of getting up after falling down, and she toddles everywhere, just for the fun of it. She loves couriering things around, so I give her things to deliver and she is very pleased with herself :) We had two absolutely dream flights down there and back, she's now had more flights than she has months of her life - 16 flights in 14 months! :redface: So no more flying for us for a while.
EJ - it's so lovely that you have enjoyed Harper so much. That's a beautiful thing to read.
I really have to go and unpack.
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We just had a weekend of DH and the boys being away. It was a pretty crusiy weekend for Haper and I and a hot one too. Yesterday Harper slept 3hour in the am and another 2 in the afternoon!! This is absolutely unheard of when it comes to my little lady, she's never done it before. Then today she slept another 2 hours (only got one sleep in today).
So happy for her to have gotten some quality day sleeps. Even if it never happens again... as long as the boys are around anyway :lol: I am just resided to the fact that she is an incredibly light sleeper and once she has had the 40 min mark and hears the slightest noise she is up and no chance of getting anymore sleep out of her.
A bit too tired for personals right now ladies. Hope all is well and catch up soon xoox
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Hi ladies :bigwave: good to see you're all doing well!!!!!
Wow, toilet training and speaking - so far ahead of us here!
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Hi all,
Hey Kaz! Good to see you.
Audax, fantastic that Nell has named her grandmother, that is sweet :) Hope the unpacking process wasn't too painful!
Char, Millie is climbing too... and she claimed my hot cross bun the other day. I didn't think she'd like the spices in it, but noooo. No bun for Mummy.
EJ, huzzah for long day sleeps! I hope she develops a taste for them.
Millie is back to eating like a horse, which is nice. She'll try anything at the moment and is absolutely mad for fruit. Blueberry poos though... :o I took her to visit a friend's one month old today (*cluck cluck* - he's on the boob all day every day and is delightfully chubby!) and she kept pointing and saying "baby!" A step up from last time when she looked quizzically and said, "cat?" She had her hair in a hairclip for the first on the weekend as her hair is finally long enough to fall into her eyes - she LOVED it! Such a girlie girl.
I'll be leaving her for the first time overnight this Friday as I have to go to the school's executive conference. I am just not ready... at least she'll be with Daddy but I will miss bed time cuddles and morning smiles.
Hope you're all well.
xox
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Hi girls all sounds pretty good, hope the little ones are healthy and well.
Harper had a weigh yesterday and she's now 8.3kg. So she's still qaining but she is on the 3rd percentile (almost off the chart). Even though she's gained weight she's gone further down on the percentile graph. She's grown in lenght though and i'm not really concerned, she's off her food at the moment which will be teething i think. I think we've just got a tall skinny little girl on our hands.
We're booked for another weigh in 2 months. See what happens in that time.
Bettter go, still in my pj's today :redface: there's nothing we had to do and i just haven't been able to get motivated.
Time to do something though :)
Talk soon xo
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MadB just a question and i know i should not be doubting myself but i'm asking because i know you'll know the true facts.
I was talking to MIL about Harper's weight and in conversations she asked if it's an 'old wives tale' or does our milk become less nutritious as time goes one and with all the running around i do with no rest? My body still makes great milk for Harper right??
Thank you in advance :)
Oh and on a really exciting note we're almost to where we were when i weaned Charlie boy. Bring on many more snuggles with my girl :)
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Yes of course, that's rubbish. It does change as your baby gets older, but it's always good and full of not only nutrition but all sorts of wonderful things your child can't get any other way (like immunoglobins and fatty acid thingos for brain development etc). If you were starving - as in famine-starving - then you may not make such good milk (if any), but otherwise it doesn't really matter what you eat etc, it's always good (they've done studies to check this).
guys, I'm sorry, I've been around but not really up to posting. Some stuff has happened and I'm not really ready to do it in public. Take care, ok!
oh, Pixie - I have a couple of wraps you could have a try with if you want to borrow. just let me know your address. I have quite a few and only using them all at the mo.
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Thank you MadB. You take care too :hug:
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Hi ladies,
just posting to say HI, all is well my way. Just busy.........
Cathie :)
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Hi all,
EJ, congratulations on your milestone with Harper's breastfeeding! Beautiful xox
Hi Cathie :)
MadB, hugs to you - and thank you for the offer of the wraps. I have PMd you. The ergo is getting uncomfortable, I'm getting so big so fast. Actually the local branch of the ABA is having a wrap/sling meet this Thursday. Bummer that I work on Thursday.
I survived my night away from Millie - not without a few tears on both sides. I went to the station to meet DH - this is normal for a weekday afternoon, but normally I stay in the car and we all go home together. When I got out and went to kiss her goodbye, she got soooo upset. Which of course upset me. She had a good time with Daddy though. I was actually really impressed - when they picked me up on Saturday, he had her dressed in the CUTEST outfit (usually he just picks up the first top and bottoms in the drawer, he had clearly had to dig for these), and also had been using cloth nappies the whole time :)
Hope you're all well.
xox
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:hug: :hug: MadB. I hope you're getting on OK. We are thinking of you often.
Nawww, pixie, what a sweetheart! Glad you both survived.
We just went on our roadtrip to country NSW to see my grandmother. It was 7 hours each way in the car and Nellie did awesome. I had a cooler bag in the front seat with me and i just kept handing food back to her, and occasionally toys, and for the last 45 minutes I gave her a whole packet of post-it flags to pull out. Genius. She had such a good time at my nana's place, my mum was there too, so there was heaps of attention, and although there were no toys, she found her own fun. Like hitting the answering machine button so it said "You have no messages" over and over again, and pulling all the shopping bags out, and talking on the remote control phones. She had a blast. Our muffler fell off on the way home, so we were pretty noisy, and she keeps pointing to the car and making her "VVVvvvVVVvvv" noise. Pretty funny.
And, um, toot toot! I'm on the preggo train too.
